Love is when words are not enough to express what you feel for someone.
Love is also, the desperate attempt to do it anyway, even though one knows that these words do not do justice to the feeling.
My dearest Bobschik,
today, my blog post is all about you.
To you as a person, to you as my partner for life and around you as an extraordinary person.
First of all, I would like to congratulate you on your birthday.
A special birthday, because we have to spend it separately. Unfortunately. That's why I'm trying to write you a few lines so that maybe I can give you such a little joy. The flowers are only virtual this time.
Special times require special measures. I hope that I will soon be able to present you with a real bouquet of flowers in person, as I know how much joy flowers will bring you..
Love is to feel your partner without touching you.
I can't tell you how much I miss you at the moment. Yes, I miss your tender hugs, your lovely words and our special conversations. And despite the fact that we are separated, I feel you. I feel your gentle hands on my body, and I also feel your thoughts that you send me. I feel you even though you are 900km away and we don't really know how it all goes on.
Exactly, I perceive you. More than often before. This crisis often makes me think back to situations that I have messed up. On those occasions that I, as your partner, have not used to try to understand you—to learn from you. I am so sorry in hindsight. Please forgive me for my superficiality and my ignorance, which I have often shown towards you. I apologise for this and hope that I will soon have the opportunity to learn from these mistakes for the future.
Yes, I feel you and now I feel myself too. I feel the irrepressible desire to be with you again, to spend time with you again and also the desire to be a much better partner to you than I ever was before. I feel -- I feel you.
Glass in your hand and a high on you, my darling.
Love is to accept the partner as he is.
Accepting the partner as he is, that is very difficult. Recognising and promoting someone in this way as an individual is the top class in any partnership. Many relationships fail at this very point. I, too, made my mistakes and now realized that you were absolutely right. Right, with your often difficult to comprehend, and also right, with your seemingly unorthodox lateral thinking. You were right and I'm glad now that you didn't let yourself bend. You're how you are - and that's a good thing.
I am proud to be by your side. Although it wasn't easy to watch people often confuse your goodness with stupidity, to watch you be used and disappointed. And although you recognized it, there was never a bad word coming from you. Being the way you are makes you vulnerable. Shit yes, hat off to you and your attitude. Hats off to your attitude and your belief in the good in every person. Perhaps now is the time when people will understand what humanity is. I have never met any other person in my life who has encountered this word more than you. Humanity is a word that many often don't even know how to spell it. You even live it - and that's a good thing. I am proud of you for being the way you are.
Glass in your hand and a high on you, my darling.
Love is to walk together through thick and thin without asking for the way.
Through thick and thin, with us it was probably always a bit thick, my darling. We have always mastered the difficult times well together. And of these we had plenty in the past. Whether as a beauty or lifestylcoach, as an entrepreneur and speaker, or as a girl from the countryside in a small hamlet at 1300 m above sea level – it was always a pleasure to have experienced this time with you. 
Even our difficult year without a fixed place to stay, only crammed together in a van on 3sqm, I also enjoyed that. I am pleased with a sense of security to know that there is someone by my side who has lived through all this with a self-evidentness, without asking where the journey is going. Thank you for that - thank you for your affection even in very difficult times. I appreciate you very much.
Especially in this day and age, couples don't even create the whiff of our problems that we've been through together. This fills me with pride and also with a sense of security.
I look forward to our future adventures and i'm looking forward to what our lives still have in store..
Love is anything but habit.
Many nowadays confuse love with habit. People are together as long as they enjoy it and in the slightest headwinds they then walk separate paths. I'm glad you're the way you are. I am grateful to be able to learn at your side. This is allowed to learn what is necessary in life, but is unfortunately far too rare nowadays.
humanity in the form of altruism and in the sense of pure joy. It's a very valuable trait that you have there. Even if many people until now could not understand them.
You are not only beautiful, but also intelligent and changeable. And yet, every task you take on you expresses your own style. Usually is a foreign word for you. I've often noticed when two people do the same thing, not always the same thing comes out of it. With you everything gets such a LucinasStyle pressed. Stay as you are and be proud of your extraordinary kind.
Glass in your hand and a high on you, my darling.
Now that we have three glasses intus, I'll only get rid of one more:
Happy birthday my darling!
Stay healthy and, most importantly, don't stop being as you are.
Celebrate your birthday today with your family and let yourself be well today. Let yourself be served from the front to the back and be proud to be the way you are!
I miss you. I need you and
I love you!
Your Bobbel, Mr.Bag
